0:00

this question comes from Tony in Madison

0:03

Wisconsin how do I know if I really want

0:05

to be in a committed

0:07

relationship good question Tony and what

0:10

makes it such a good question is that it

0:13

is both simultaneously simple and

0:16

complicated so I'm going to explain both

0:19

aspects in a manner that you have

0:21

probably never heard before but need to

0:24

hear before you enter that contract AKA

0:27

marriage you might hate me now for what

0:30

I'm about to say Tony but you'll be

0:32

thanking me later now I totally

0:35

understand if you laugh and believe I'm

0:38

completely out of touch concerning

0:40

modern relationships but that's simply

0:43

not the case if anything I am much more

0:46

in touch than I have ever been because

0:49

what I have come to learn is that

0:51

relationship Customs much like Fashions

0:55

come and go but what doesn't change

0:58

whether it be in America or Argentina is

1:02

human nature and a woman's nature always

1:06

remains the

1:07

same one of the very first things to

1:10

understand and this is quite possibly

1:13

the most important thing for any man to

1:16

understand is the absolute necessity of

1:19

being very careful if considering the

1:22

long-term relationship game so if you're

1:26

still thinking mainly with your crotch

1:29

now is is not a good time to be thinking

1:32

with the wrong head and this advice is

1:35

intended specifically for heterosexual

1:38

males and you can take that any way you

1:42

please as a man you must learn not to

1:45

become ins slaved by a woman's Beauty

1:48

but see them for what they actually are

1:51

completely cold and calculating

1:53

creatures that will destroy your life

1:56

without a second thought once you cease

1:59

to be useful like a child tossing away a

2:02

toy that no longer amuses them just

2:06

remember although they can and sometimes

2:09

will be pleasant during a divorce for

2:12

the most part it is still their innate

2:15

nature to be cold and indifferent and if

2:18

you don't believe this is true consider

2:21

this every man that I have ever known in

2:24

my life who ended up with a failed

2:27

marriage women initi iting divorce

2:30

around 83% of the time have told me what

2:35

an absolute living hell their future or

2:38

current ex-wife is or

2:41

was but what should also be remembered

2:45

was at one time that woman was wonderful

2:49

she was the apple of his eye they got

2:52

along great the sex was great and plti

2:56

everything was good then something

2:58

changed and around 98% of the time that

3:03

change was with the woman and if you

3:06

want verification of this run what I

3:09

just said past any divorced man and I

3:13

can practically guarantee you in just

3:16

about every case they will agree with

3:19

what I just said and that my friend is

3:22

pretty damn

3:24

conclusive now for any of you women

3:28

listening to this out there before you

3:30

go all caring on my ass I'll readily

3:34

admit it's not 100% women's fault all

3:37

the time there are some men out there

3:41

that are simply no good not just to you

3:44

but for nobody they go by the very

3:48

technical term known as

3:51

and some of these men have very

3:54

Advanced degrees in

3:57

assholism I totally understand that but

4:01

for the most part let's say around 80%

4:04

of the time you lady are the problem and

4:08

I hope you have the courage and humility

4:11

to admit that and continue

4:14

listening and if you are able to agree

4:17

with what I just said I congratulate you

4:21

because you are being truly

4:24

introspective and open something many

4:27

women unfortunately are not capable of

4:31

but it absolutely represents strength

4:34

and character and Any Man worth a damn

4:38

deeply appreciates that and while you're

4:41

at it if you know any other woman you

4:45

think could benefit from hearing this by

4:47

all means turn her on to this because

4:51

you will be helping her with her

4:53

relationships as well so yeah where was

4:57

I oh yeah uh so as far as relationships

5:01

are concerned you both can be expected

5:05

to have plenty of

5:07

fun that's sadly become codee for sex

5:12

avoiding honest language which used to

5:15

describe an extremely enjoyable

5:18

experience when I was young called

5:21

as opposed to sex which is not

5:25

the same thing but something I have come

5:28

to understand many Catholics enjoy

5:31

engaging

5:33

in so young man certainly by the time

5:36

you've hit around 2 if you're going to

5:39

make any pretense towards a

5:42

LTR the realities of life such as a

5:46

woman's innate desire to make babies

5:49

should really take precedence that is to

5:52

say you really need to be taking life

5:56

much more seriously that means putting

5:59

down and the video games as well as the

6:01

drugs and alcohol and even though I know

6:06

times are very difficult get the hell

6:09

out of your parents family or friends

6:12

house because if you're not able to

6:16

successfully do that you sure as hell

6:19

are not ready for a serious

6:22

LTR unless the woman is a skank

6:25

hillbilly or mentally

6:27

in the case of woman unless

6:30

she's an idiot but that still doesn't

6:33

stop the biological

6:35

impulse even if she is not consciously

6:40

aware of this herself and even if she

6:42

tells you something entirely different

6:45

she still has an overwhelming urge to

6:48

make babies with or without your

6:51

consent and you need to fully understand

6:55

that and accept that because it's a fact

6:58

of existence

7:00

sorry fellas but after around

7:03

25 the banging doing the horizontal Bop

7:07

the proverbial free ride with no pains

7:11

drama or cost is over you will pay to be

7:17

with a woman one way or the

7:20

other so now that we have all that

7:24

out of the way the simple answer Tony is

7:28

that you have you can have any kind of

7:30

relationship you want which could

7:33

include an

7:35

LTR whether being officially married or

7:39

not but the important part that needs to

7:41

be understood is that every type of

7:45

relationship has its you know pros and

7:47

cons but as far as an LTR is concerned I

7:52

absolutely strongly advise against it

7:55

that is as far as a state official

7:59

marriage is

8:01

concerned there are far too many

8:04

opportunities for that to become a

8:06

nightmare scenario that will ruin your

8:09

life remember ultimately her only

8:14

purpose in life is to make babies not to

8:18

make you happy and now that the state

8:21

continues to provide she will continue

8:24

to crank out babies and Society will

8:28

continue to have have greater and

8:30

greater numbers of single moms because

8:34

ultimately they don't give a damn they

8:37

just want

8:39

babies also I advise you bear in mind

8:43

the state that you live in may have laws

8:46

concerning common law marriage meaning

8:48

that you could be living with a woman

8:51

even if everything's going fine and you

8:54

find out too late when suddenly two or 3

8:58

years down thead Road suddenly things

9:01

aren't going so fine but because you

9:05

live in a common law state suddenly

9:08

everything you own have of it can become

9:11

hers and this unless you are a dedicated

9:15

masochist is something you definitely

9:18

don't want to happen in your

9:21

life well I think I've talked enough

9:24

about this for now and I hope I answered

9:27

your question Tony and I just want to

9:30

end with

9:32

this it's very important to recognize

9:34

that there is a great deal of very ugly

9:37

you know reality out there when it comes

9:40

to the subject of

9:42

relationships but if no one has told you

9:45

what I just shared with you it's far

9:48

better that you know now because the

9:51

truth has always been a bitter pill to

9:54

swallow but a ruined life due to stupid

9:58

mistakes like I don't know marrying a

10:01

girl simply because she got knocked up

10:03

and your idiotic upbringing family or

10:06

friends are pressuring you to man up and

10:11

or yes to do the right thing can be very

10:16

difficult to undo and that is a far more

10:20

bitter pill to

10:23

swallow so what do you think what kind

10:26

of

10:27

relationship do you think is really the

10:29

best these days do you think I hit the

10:32

mark or am I completely off base I'd

10:36

really like to know your opinion so drop

10:39

me a line there's a contact Link in the

10:42

description below and of course

10:44

subscribe and hit that notification Bell

10:47

so you will never ever miss any of my

10:52

incredible

10:54

episodes and finally Compliments are

10:57

always appreciated but the best

10:59

compliment you can ever give me is to

11:01

tell a friend until next Monday or

11:04

Friday this is earnest and I usually

11:07

always am