Episode 18

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25th Jul 2025

HOW A WOMAN CAN SEE YOUR TRUE ESSENCE AT ALL TIMES. PC 461 EARNEST MANN’S - ADVANCED PERCEPTION EP.18 PT.1

Understanding the Unspoken Power Dynamics Between Men and Women

Hello, Earnest Mann here. In this episode, I explore relationship dynamics, female perception, and the hidden forces shaping attraction and desire. We're peeling back the layers of superficial tactics like fashion, hair, and game, and uncovering what really matters to a woman — a man's will. That’s right — not charm, not money, not abs — but will. And most men don’t even know what that means.

What Dancing, Hair Gel, and ‘Game’ Never Told You

Back in the ‘80s and ‘90s, popular media pushed the idea that good looks and dance moves would get you laid. But advanced perception tells a different story. Sure, style and grooming had their place, but those who truly succeeded tapped into something deeper. It wasn’t about choosing women — it was about women choosing you, based on something you can’t fake: your willpower.

The Female Senses: More Than Meets the Eye

A woman’s ability to sense will rivals her superior color acuity. Just like her eye can detect subtle hues better than yours, she can intuitively feel your inner strength — or lack of it. This isn’t character, fellas. That’s different. This is about energetic intention, something you radiate without even knowing.


The Harsh Truth Men Don't Want to Hear

Let me be blunt. If you think you “talked your way” into a woman’s bed, you didn’t. She made that choice long before your first compliment landed. Women hold the real control in romantic relationships, and most men are deluded by outdated cultural programming to see otherwise. Romanticism, chivalry — it’s a centuries-old performance, not a biological reality.


The Elemental Roots of Female Behavior

To understand why women operate the way they do, you’ve got to grasp their elemental alignment — wind and fire. This isn’t just symbolic talk. These elements reflect actual psychological and behavioral tendencies. But if you’re stuck in outdated views of masculinity and dating, you’ll never see it. Like electricity in the 1830s — unimaginable until it wasn’t.


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Greetings. Here are ideas and

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information intended to help you

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navigate the mind field of life's many

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problems that I have gained through a

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self-realization process known as

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advanced perception. Through advanced

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perception, we learn that we are not

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getting working answers to our problems

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because we're asking the wrong

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questions. So if you have an open mind

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and understand that you have absolutely

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nothing to lose, here it is. But this is

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not free. It requires that you pay

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attention.

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Fellas, ever notice how a woman loves to

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dance? You haven't? Well, perhaps it's

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time you started paying attention.

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Hello, folks. This is Ernest. Welcome. I

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remember in the:

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so many movies that were fixated on

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dancing.

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And in each and every case, what was

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absolutely implied was that if you were

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a reasonably handsome guy with some

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reasonably good dance moves, you

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wouldn't have any problem getting laid.

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Well, absolutely true, but not for what

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amounts to be certain superficial

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truths.

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Back then, there were some musclebound

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freaks in the bar and club for sure, but

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the vast majority of guys, yours truly

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included, were far more focused on

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fashion, dress, and hairstyle.

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Now, on the fashion side, on a scale of

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1 to 10, most guys were around a five to

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an eight. Of course, that depended on

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how much money you had or were willing

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to spend on clothes, but hair, that was

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an entirely different matter. And guys

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put a lot of time and money into their

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hair. So to summarize, you didn't need

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to be a musclebound freak. If you had

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anything even close to a gymnast

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physique, cool, decent clothes, and

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great hair, it wasn't a concern whether

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you would score that night, but picking

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the one you wanted to sleep with.

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But this is not meant to be a history

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lesson or a guide on how to pick up

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women. It's meant to illustrate another

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power of advanced perception that even

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though certain social rituals seem to

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work to accomplish certain goals, it

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doesn't mean it's the correct ritual, if

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any ritual is even needed at all.

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Now, what I'm about to say may be very

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surprising to most men out there, but

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from my own sociological studies, and

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actually speaking about this with well

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over a hundred women of various ages, if

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a woman is looking for a man to sleep

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with, she has already decided within 5

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minutes of seeing you or talking with

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you, and she will absolutely let you No,

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that doesn't mean it's not important,

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but it's distantly important to what

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about you truly moves her senses. Your

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will. Damn. Wish I would have known that

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back in in the 80s. Could have saved a

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lot of money on clothes and especially

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my hair.

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Just like a woman has better color

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acuity than a man, the physical

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structure of a woman's eye is better

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than that of a man's in certain

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respects, particularly concerning color.

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She also possesses the ability to sense

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the level of will, far better than a

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man. But this is not the case with

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character, whereas a man is far superior

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in that respect. But it must be

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understood that character and will are

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two very different things. This is the

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reason why this certain aspect about a

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woman most men simply don't understand.

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Now men, you'll notice that I was

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specifically talking about a woman

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deciding to sleep with you. But to go a

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bit deeper, no matter how hard you play

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the game of love, and even if you think

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you have conquered a woman by

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sweetalking her, getting access to her

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budoir

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bedroom, as they say in French, because

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you've got game,

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well, the fact is, my friend, in this

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case, you are deluding yourselves. The

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joke is absolutely on you.

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Practically every woman on earth shares

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this one unique sensory trait in common,

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even if it's purely instinctual.

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Women control all aspects of

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relationships with men. And the sooner

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you realize this and kick a bit of that

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bravado to the side, the better off

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you'll be.

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Bringing gifts to andor placating women

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certainly goes back all through human

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history. Very well documented as

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chivalry in the age of knights, but it

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totally came into its own beginning in

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the middle of the 16th century with

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romanticism

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and it has pretty much been the same

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program of love ever since.

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Now, men, I totally realize many of you

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may not like what I'm telling you, but

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bear in mind, I'm trying to let you know

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this to prevent a lot of potential pain

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and disappointment.

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And here is the reason why women are as

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they are. I don't have the time to go in

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depth explaining this, but the primary

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reason of why, and this applies to all

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races and cultures, it's due to a

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woman's elemental alignment.

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Of the four elements that I've discussed

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before, women fall into two broad

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elemental categories, wind, fire, or

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some combination thereof. And if you

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understand the functional nature of

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those two elements and how they manifest

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in human behavior, there is no mystery.

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You simply have to allow yourself to

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understand and accept that.

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The problem is most men today simply

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don't understand that reality, let alone

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accept it. because the current reality

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of existence is so firmly ingrained into

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their consciousness that they cannot see

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beyond that. And until your

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consciousness changes, you simply won't

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see it. Allow me to give you a very

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brief example of consciousness change.

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Virtually everyone in the world today,

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even the most isolated, either has or

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certainly understands the reality of

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electricity and electrical service. But

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many people don't realize that it wasn't

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until Edison's Peril Street power

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station, New York City, in:

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that mass electrical generation not only

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didn't exist, but it certainly didn't

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exist for the countless uses we had in

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our individual homes or living spaces at

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that time.

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Today, that reality begins when the

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electric clock alarm wakes you and you

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have a cup of morning coffee either made

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on your electric stove or your electric

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coffee maker. Having this creation was

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virtually completely out of the public

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consciousness

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until it was. And once people generally

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understood it and also didn't fear it,

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it became part of the public

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consciousness. It was certainly well

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blished across America by the:

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But if you tried to explain this to

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someone in America in the:

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they either would have laughed you off

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or had you put in an insane asylum. And

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even as recent as the 18th century, you

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may have been burned at the stake or

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hung for being a witch if you proposed

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such ideas. Ouch. So in the simplest

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possible terms, that is exactly the same

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situation I find myself in when I am

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scussing the elements here in:

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minus being burned at the stake or hung

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thankfully.

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Now as far as you ladies out there, I

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feel certain you know what I am saying

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even if you won't admit it is true. So,

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as far as that's concerned, perhaps

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you'll consider that when you're out

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manhunting,

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whether that be at a bar, club, or

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laundromat, because generally speaking,

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we as men are simply not prepared to

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handle that. And it would be extremely

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unfair on your part to take advantage of

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us poor dumb men.

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And as far as me personally, I

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personally I'm certainly not and never

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have been not one time in my entire life

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fallen prey to your womanly charms.

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Nope. Not ever. Never. Never.

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donation. Thank you. I really hope you

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found this useful and interesting. And

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if you want to know more or have any

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questions at all, you can reach out to

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me via my website link in the

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description below.

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And if you really want to give me a

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compliment, telling a friend about the

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show would be the best compliment you

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could ever give me. Until next time,

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this is Ernest, and I usually always am.

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You see, I have found, that there can be amazing relevant connections in our everyday life, from very unlikely sources.
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As I don’t wish to presume you have all the time in the world, here’s just a tiny little bit, about the Earnest Mann you’re reaching out to…..

I’m just a relatively normal man, I say relatively, considering all that life has put me through… so far.

In the shortest possible terms, I believe it would be extremely difficult, for anyone to have experienced all that I have in life up to this point, and not be expected to show some signs of physiological and psychological wear and tear as a consequence of those experiences.

Yet because of those experiences, are what produces something that simply cannot be bought or learned at University... character.

A very good lady friend of mine, once described me much like a well-old catcher’s mitt, used... but well oiled, comfortable and dependable to the user…

Well, if that’s what some folks consider to be character, I guess I don’t have any damn problem, being compared to an old catcher’s mitt at all! Ha, ha, ha.

As far as employment and business, I’ve done it all. From being a deckhand on a fishing boat in the Bering Sea, – and almost dying as a consequence – to extensive experience, in the entertainment business, the restaurant/bar business, sociological research and sapient defense metrics to name just a few of my many life experiences.

Now, throw in a good deal of experiencing – and surviving – bizarre life situations, which I definitely would not have made it through, if not for utilizing my self developed Advanced Perception, and voilà, you end up with….well…. me, and sometimes, to be completely honest, sometimes, I was also very damn lucky! Hahaha.

So if your life’s not so great right now, or more accurately, if it’s gone to hell in a handbasket, reach out to me via the contact page below, and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can, and we’ll see if we can’t make things better, perhaps, much better.
Until our paths fatefully meet friend, take care – Earnest.